Unfortunately it's probably AI generated. The profile that posts them also pop up for me frequently. Once you've read a few of them you notice the pattern and the repeating phrases. It's different, but way too syrupy for my liking.
Unfortunately it's probably AI generated. The profile that posts them also pop up for me frequently. Once you've read a few of them you notice the pattern and the repeating phrases. It's different, but way too syrupy for my liking.
Don't use big words like AI around, Dave.
The man's subscription to NaaiBuddies.co.za is to date still his greatest technological achievement.
Interesting fact is that Boan Venter and Marnus vd Merwe are ex Cheetahs.
They are in Erasmus,s good books, buddy buddy….. I don’t believe for 1 moment for example that Marnus is better or more inform hooker than Johan Grobbelaar or Andre Hugo….
Boan is a good loosehead and he might go far, only time will tell…
The writing above is way to dramatic…meant to influence people,s emotional side, in a ag shame kinda way….
Plum go fuck yourself you worthless prick
A good read...tx Dave.
Nice to see a just reward for the hard yards.
Sorry, Dave, I can't help myself.
Anyhoos, I'm in England atm.
...any idea where I can find some "singles near me"?
Jesus David... now its severe erection difficulties!
Dude you need to go see a theerapist
Where in England are you plum?
Near some alley where Dave promised I would meet "hot singles".
...but only a couple of chubby guys with round glasses showed up.
Plum
Da ve told you to gop and f yourself - so whata re you doing at a place where guys turned up>.
Whoosh!
If you really are in England, Plum, I hope you enjoy yourself :)
Geez Uncle you are a Hypocrite….preaching all holy no more personal attacks on Posters ??
And here you are doing exactly that??
Yes plum are you really in England? If you are, go try Dave,s ice cream in Ipswich I believe? Or is it Suffolk a Ceremonial County in England ??
Do not eat Fish and Chips in England, it’s not nice….
Chips are lovely over here !!
Thanks becs
Right back at ya you sexy minx!!
Oh boy !
You cheeky thing, Chippo :)
Yes, M, I'm really in England.
I came because I was feeling a little lonely and Dave said he had this fantastic meeting place for "lonely singles looking for red hot action"...
Said he uses it daily and that's why he's attained such a zenful presence.
...call it a pilgrimage if you like.
Ok Becs the chips is nice :) Ok plum, enjoy your stay. Atleast it’s not full blown Winter.
It’s been hot here, Mpower. We’ve been in the ‘30’s and have another hot spell forecast….possibly up to 40 degrees. If that happens, I’ll die !!
Wow 40 is hot…find the coolest place inside Becs, and a fan. Nice cool Drinks and you should be fine.
Maybe a Cool shower can also be helpful. All the best for you.
It is hot, isn’t it ? Hopefully it won’t get to that temperature !
I got myself a hand held fan the other week. Works really well !
Great that should help a lot. All the best Becs:)
Thank you :)
Pleasure:) hope you having a lovely eve…..I am watching the Jason Bourne Movies…busy with the first one.
I will most probably manage the second one to Tonight:)
...this passed Tuesday in Cape Town...29C in the dead of winter...die Kaap is die beste plek in die wêreld...gaan die plek mis.
War gan jy heen?
That’s warm Draad.
Those movies are pretty good, aren’t they, Mpower. Glad you’re enjoying them :)
Yes DbD it is always difficult to leave behind family, friends and places that we have called home for years to start a new life.
It takes courage, determination and hard work to start up again, but you have the skills work ethic and drive to make this work for you and your loved ones.
Thankfully you have made the correct call and I admire you for that.
Trust you will still use this forum once you have settled in.
Art.
Where you off to Draad?
Haven't decided 100% yet...evaluating a few options/opportunities...one in the USA, one in Aussie... one is staying in CT...interesting door opened up only last week...but I feel my kids won't have a future here in SA...the screws are being tightened every day...and I don’t really see any positive change on the horizon.
Thanks Arthur...yes, I will remain a member of this forum as long as I'm able...you guys are my friends...even Rudehole has the odd positive contribution...still waiting on Trad to have a lucid moment though... :-)
Yeah Draad many of my mates back home have either left or planning to it’s really sad
My poor home city more a town - Grahamstown is a prime example of the huge drop in standards - once a thriving beautiful town now reduced to pothole city with limited amenities
So fucking sad and it looks beyond a recovery
Good luck with your decision on where to settle
Oz vs States - I’d definitely go Oz
When one looks back on the original Grahamstown Arts Festival... compared to now, it is appalling what has happend to this fantastic historical town....
What a blast those days were.... absolutely magic, and THE place to be ....
Sadly, the same cannot be said anymore
DB both my sisters stay in OZ and they say that living cost, especially Renting or buying Property, has gone up like crazy.
Maybe just something to consider….if your job offers is lucrative, then it most probably won’t make a difference.
The grass is not always greener on the other side. But all the best with whatever decision you make.
Draad, good luck on whatever you decide, migration is never easy but mate, lesser people than you have done it and made it, one day you'll look back and say to yourself I should have made it sooner.
I'm in Sydney, if there's anything you need help with please don't hesitate to call or text me.
Happy to give you my contact details.
Sitting in a very comfortable job ATM...at a top company with stock options in a few years...will be difficult to walk away from that and my Cape Town and Wynland...choices né?...if ever in Sydney, I'll buy you a drink, thanks Denny.
Ja nee wat, Sounds Like DB is going nowhere:)
Nah, got an interview with the Ausies next week... the USA thing is slower than what I would have liked, but it's a eeal option...if it comes off, I'm gone....it's not like I actually want to go but I believe I should give my kids a better chance at life...SA is getting worse by the day.
Best of luck with your interview next week.
DB both my sisters stay in OZ and they say that living cost, especially Renting or buying Property, has gone up like crazy.
That's because 200,000 migrants per year are breaking down the door to get into the country.
Yeah DA the Grahamstown Festival used to be awesome - my sister who still lives there says is an embarrassment now
So sad - I used to watch all the rock bands at the festival - Springbok Nude Girls, Lithium, Koos Kombuis etc
I also used to save all my money and buy loads of CD’s from the same guy who made an appearance each year - he must have loved me
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That table tells you everything you need to know about South Africa's fate
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Good read popped up on FB
It wasn’t supposed to happen this way. Not after all those miles, all that quiet graft in northern winds, all those slow-burning seasons at Edinburgh where Boan Venter kept his head down and let his boots do the talking. He was building something—something stable, something Scottish. With the Springboks seeming a distant dream and the thistle on the horizon, the script had already been written in his mind. Earn the residency. Get the cap. Maybe even sing “Flower of Scotland” one day. But life doesn’t always ask if you’re ready before it rewrites your destiny.
The call came like a thunderclap in a clear sky. One moment, he was the quiet workhorse of the URC. The next, Rassie Erasmus was on the line. South Africa hadn’t forgotten him. Maybe they'd just been waiting. Maybe they were watching all along. What’s undeniable is this: a single moment cracked open a door he thought had long been sealed shut. And when he walked through it—no hesitation, no doubt—he didn’t just join the Springboks. He made it unmistakably clear he belonged.
Eight minutes. That’s all it took. A strong carry, a low center of gravity, a quick burst—and suddenly Boan Venter had his first Test try. He didn’t raise his arms in wild celebration. He didn’t need to. His eyes said enough. There was relief in them. Vindication. Maybe even disbelief that the game he’d fallen in love with as a six-year-old boy back in Kimberley had finally brought him home—not through the back door, not by proxy, but through the front gate of South African rugby’s proudest house.
There’s something deeply poetic about late bloomers. They don’t get the fanfare. They rarely grab headlines. But when their moment comes, it’s earned. Every inch of it. Venter’s debut was more than just a jersey swap; it was the conclusion of an inner dialogue years in the making. Should I wait? Should I go where I’m wanted now? Do I dare dream in green and gold? The Springbok setup, with its brutal honesty and unforgiving standards, leaves little room for passengers. And yet, there he was, anchoring the scrum, carrying with venom, fitting in like he’d always been there.
The trio of debutants—Venter, Marnus van der Merwe, Neethling Fouché—stood shoulder to shoulder like they’d done this forever. But beneath the calm surface, they were navigating their own private emotional storms. You could see it in the way they moved—urgent, hungry, precise. There was no time to settle in gently. No soft launch. You hit, or you get hit. And Venter hit.
He spoke afterwards with the kind of humility that’s become typical of him. Grateful to the group. Inspired by the support. Moved by the scale of it all. And yet, behind those modest words, you could sense a flicker of something deeper—a recognition that, for once, life had met him halfway. It didn’t always. He had to leave home to be noticed. He had to almost become Scottish to remind people he was South African.
But in Mbombela, surrounded by the green tide of fans, with the echoes of the anthem still vibrating in his bones, there was no more confusion. The journey that once seemed like a detour had in fact always been a straight line. It just took time to see the pattern.
Not every Test career starts with fireworks. Most don’t. But every now and then, someone steps onto that stage and you just know—they’re not here to make up numbers. They’re here to matter. Venter’s boots have walked many fields. But last weekend, they found home.